Everyone can create a new space to allow for a relationship to grow. Once a relationship has started, endless growth can occur if both parties are willing to communicate not only verbally, but mentally and physically. There is no reason for one person to try and change another, but people can adapt into a way of being that is in align with their partner and accept them for who they are unconditionally.
Here are some positive attributes people can consider when entering into a relationship:
- Share interests - Always be open to sharing your interests with your partner and be open to what they want to share with you. Learning, working together, listening, talking and taking action on your partners interests stimulates a connection that grows stronger with time making your friendship inside the relationship more fruitful.
- Allow alone time for the other person - As much as you may feel you want to spend every second of the day with the person you cherish, it is always healthy to give them alone time and allow yourself to have alone time as well. Both parties will enter a relationship in which there will be times when they will need to think, read, re-charge, etc. and have their own space. Give and take this opportunity. Plus, it gives you a chance to miss them during this time period.
- Support each other - Always support your partner by talking, listening, giving advice and reading & researching with them in their endeavors they choose to pursue. This allows you to learn something new as well and in the long run can provide for a better support structure for them coupled with you walking away with a better understanding of what they want to do.
- Love unconditionally and accept any perceived imperfections - Nobody is perfect. Love them unconditionally and when you accept perceived flaws and imperfections the other may have, then you will have found the perfect person for you. Accept them for who they are and love them for it! Everyone is unique!
- Treat each other with respect - Be kind, that's it!!
- Laugh, smile, play and celebrate - Laugh as often as you can. Laughing is not only good for the immune system but it keeps a relationship grounded in fun. A smile also comes along with a laugh. Celebrate each other's accomplishments no matter how small or big they are. Be happy and enjoy! Have fun!!
- Give and take advice - There is nothing more powerful in a relationship than listening and providing advice. You may not act on the advice but it is always good to have a healthy conversation about issues you feel are important. Don't leave anything off the table. Take your time if you need to during the conversation and always listen.
- Show compassion and be empathetic - Everybody hurts once in a while. Always provide comfort and support even if you need to stay quiet while the other person expresses their feelings or just needs you by their side. Sometimes peace and quiet is needed while the person needs to be close to you. There are times that closeness without speaking is the best remedy.
Be there for the other person and allow your relationship to grow by considering some of these positive attributes. Live, laugh, love and most importantly respect them for who they are! Again, no one is perfect, but when you love them unconditionally, they are the perfect person for you.
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